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Although interacting with girls seems like an intimidating endeavor to many guys,adhering
to certain principles allows it to be a more comfortable and enjoyable experience for
everyone involved.

Steps:
1.Be yourself.
It's important to maintain self confidence by being yourself around girls.If you adop an
alternate personality to attract girls,you will eventually be weighed down with the feeling
that your ture self isn't good enough.It may help to develop and improve your social skills,
but any girls that don't apprciate you for who you are don't deserve your attention.

2.Respect all girls equally.
You stand a much better chance of making a good overall impression if you treat girls that
don't interest you just as nicely as those that do.This doesn't mean that you need to talk
to or flirt with every girl,but don't ignore them or treat them dismissively.Don't talk to a
girl about other girls' attractiveness;it's distasteful and can degrade the girl's opinion of
herself.YOU generally shouldn't talk about past relationships you've had,or other girls that
interest you;it detracts from building a new relationship.

3.Make eye contact.
Many girls like it when you can't take your eyes off them,but not when you're staring at
their boobs.Although there are some girls that may enjoy such attention,you won't
offend anyone by focusing on her face instead.Do not ogle her.Just remember to use
discretion and show proper respect.

4.Make them feel special.
Girls like it when you're forward but not in a creepy way.Smile at her in a way that's clear,
friendly,and/or playful.If you feel compelled to honesty,you can offer a sincere
compliment.For example,you could say"Did anyone ever tell you that you have a beautiful
smile?"Eyes are another good one--they're not the easiest thing to notice, and it shows
you were looking at her face.Select something good that is reserved for her only;it will
make her feel wonderfully special,admired,and beautiful.

5.Be a gentleman.
Girls love guys that are polite and courteous.It's just a matter of doing simple things like
holding doors open for them and being respectful in other ways.Some claim chivalry is
dead,but if you believe that,then you're going to have some problems getting a girl's
interest.

6.Make her laugh.
Being funny is one of the most attractive qualities a guy can have, and if you're not
"handsome",a girl will usually overlook that.If you're not goofy but you have a very dry,
sarcastic sense of humor,use that.Just watch your timing and try not to be too goofy,or
you may make a fool of yourself.It's okay to tease her a little, but generally not about her
appearance.

7.Notice when you're having a conversation and she seems uncomfortable,
change the suject.
Watch her movements,if she's shifting her weight a lot and not making eye contact,
chances are she's uncomfortable.

8.Recognize that physical contact should be limited by the state of your
relationship.

Tips:
Be the same around her and your friends.
Never use the words "sexy" unless it's a joking fashion.
Don't ever tell her that she looks bad.
Don't panic if you do something embarrassing.A lot of girls find that really cute.

Warnings:
Do not make sexist jokes.
Don't focus too much on one girl if she isn't enjoying the extra attention.She may get
annoyed,and it will likely hurt your relationship.
Get to know her friends and be friends with them.This will show her that you're nice and friendly.

尽管对很多男生而言与女生交往简直是噩梦，但遵循以下几个简单的原则将会给你带来很多愉快的体验。
操作步骤:
1.做你自己。
在与女生们交往的过程中做好自己、拥有自信是非常重要的。如果你改变自己的个性去吸引她们的话，到头来你会感到很失落--因为真实的你差劲到无法吸引女生。做你自己可以培养你的社交技巧，任何不欣赏你的女生都不值得你关注。
2.平等地尊重每个女生。
如果你将恐龙和美女一视同仁的话，这会给她们带来深刻的印象，你也会因此得到更好的机 会。这并不意味着你得同每个女生闲扯或调情，但请不要无视恐龙们的存在，更不要去鄙视她们。不要在一个女生面前谈论其他女生的魅力，这会让她们感到厌恶，甚至看轻自己。通常来讲别扯你的那些风流往事，或其他的女友候选人，这对建立新的关系是非常不利的。
3. 眉目传情
很多女生喜欢看到男生的目光黏在自己的身上，但是不要老盯着她们的胸部看，尽管有个别女生确实有此嗜好，你还是盯着她们的脸比较好，但可别用色迷迷的眼神。记住目光中应该透露出你慎重以及尊敬。
4.让她们感到很特别。
女生们很欣赏你的勇敢，但不要吓到她们。单纯友好甚至戏虐的微笑都是可以的。如果你希望能坦诚一些，那么可以诚挚地恭维一下。例如，你可以说，"有人说过你的微笑很迷人吗？"眼睛也是个不错的选择，即使你不容易注意到，这也可以暗示你在认真地看她的脸。选择她独有的特点切入，这会让她感到拥有特别的感受，觉得自己很美丽，受人爱慕。
5.做一个绅士。
女生们喜欢那些彬彬有礼的男生。做到这一点也很简单--帮她们开门或者以礼相待。某些骑士时代的礼节已经过时，如果你坚持使用，这会让她们感到很诡异，反而会弄巧成拙。
6.逗她开心。
风趣是每个男生都应具有的品质，相比于"帅气"，女生们更重于此。如果你智商不低，而且还拥有独特的幽默感，那么尽管拿来用吧。把握时机也很重要，可以揶揄对方，但是原则上不要拿她的相貌来开玩笑。
7. 注意碰到女生不喜欢的话题时，要转换话题。
留意她的举动，如果你发现她们频繁地变换姿势或者与你没有眼神的交流，那就表示她们对当前的话题感到不适。
8.肢体接触的范围应依当前所处的关系而定。

WORDS:
1, thought  [θɔ:t]
n. 想法,思想
v. (think的过去式和过去分词)想,思考,认为
vbl. 想,思考,认为
Thought: 想法|思想|思考
I thought: 我想
he thought: 他思索道
2, sexist  ['seksist]
n. 姓别歧视者
sexist: 性别优越感者|男性至上主义者
Sexist Writing: 性别歧视的写作
sexist language: 性别歧视语
3, interacting 
相互作用
interacting: 互动|互动关系|相互影响
interacting ba: 互动场所|互动情境
non-interacting: 非相互作用的
4, intimidating  [in'timideitiŋ]
a. 给人以威胁的,咄咄逼人的
Intimidating: 胁迫
Intimidating Rage: 狂暴震慑
Intimidating Shout: 破胆怒吼
5, endeavor  [in'devə]
n. 努力,尽力
v. 努力,尽力
endeavor: 努力|努力做|尝试
endeavor v.: 努力，尽力
bid=endeavor: 试图
6, adhering 
粘附性的
附着
adhering: 附着|粘附性的|粘着
adhering slag: 挂渣
adhering zone: 附着区域
7, principle  ['prinsəpl]
n. 原则,原理,主义,信念
Principles: 原理|敏捷原则|原则
Principles of: 计算机原理与算法语言
Rio Principles: 里约原则
8, maintain  [men'tein]
v. 维持,维修,保养,坚持
Maintain: 保持|维修|维护保养供给
to maintain: 赡养|保持|维持
maintain as: 作为...来供养
9, self  [self]
n. 自我,自己,本身
no-self: 无我
self-rim: 半框的|半框的确是的
self-sow: 自然生长
10, adopt  [ə'dɔpt]
v. 采用,收养,接受
adopt: 采用|收养|采纳,收养
to adopt: 通过|采用
adopt v.: 收养|采纳|采用
11, alternate  [ɔ:l'tə:nit, 'ɔ:ltə:neit]
a. 交替的,轮流的
v. 交替,轮流
alternate: 交替的。|普通正反握|支付
Alternate-S: 设置书签
Alternate-C: 删除书签
12, eventually  [i'ventjʊəli]
ad. 终于,最后
eventually: 终于|最后|最后,最终
I have seen eventually: 我终于明白
eventually = In the end,...: 最后
13, deserve  [di'zə:v]
vi. 应该得到
vt. 应受,值得
deserve: 应该获得|应受|应得
I deserve: 黄湘怡
deserve to: 值得，应得……
14, overall  ['əuvərɔ:l]
a. 全部的,全体的,一切在内的
ad. 总的来说,全部地
OVERALL: 工作服|全面的，总的，综合的|轮廓，总体上
overall:: 工作裤|综合的，全面的
overall a.: 全部的.全体的
15, flirt with 
和...调情
Flirt with: 眉来眼去|送秋波|和......调情
16, ignore  [ig'nɔ:]
v. 不顾,不理,忽视
ignore: 无视|忽略|不理睬
ignore v.: 忽视，不理|忽视，不顾，不理
Ignore it: 机器 应该都会忽略掉|别管它 别理它
17, dismissively 
adv. dismissive的变形
18, attractiveness  [ə'træktivnis]
n. 魅力,吸引力
Attractiveness: 吸引力
A → ATTRACTIVENESS: 魅力
market attractiveness: 市场吸引力|吸引力
19, distasteful  [dis'teistful]
a. 味道差的,不愉快的,讨厌的
distasteful: 味道不佳的|不愉快的口味|讨厌的口味
distasteful/unpalatable: 味道差的
20, degrade  [di'greid]
v. 降格
degrade: 使降级|降级|降低
degrade vt.: 降低...身份, 有辱...人格|降级，堕落，贬黜
degrade tast: 品位低俗的
21, detract  [di'trækt]
v. 减去
22, offend  [ə'fend]
v. 犯罪,冒犯,违反
offend: 冒犯|触怒,伤...感情|触犯
offend v.: 使...恼火|冒犯，触犯
offend spread: 端点放炮排列
23, focusing  ['fəukəsiŋ]
v. 调焦
Focusing: 聚焦|调焦，聚焦|对焦
Focusing cup: 聚焦杯
focusing aid: 聚焦装置
24, ogle  ['əugl]
n. 扪眉目传情
v. 注视
Ogle: 送秋波|媚眼|光学引力透镜实验
OGLE-TR-56: OGLE-TR-56
OGLE-TR-111: OGLE-TR-111
25, discretion  [dis'kreʃən]
n. 慎重,辨别力,考虑
[计算机] 判定
discretion: 灵活性|谨慎，小心|自由酌情处理
at discretion: 自行决定|酌情决定|全权决定
discretion n.: 自由裁决|任意决定权|裁别,判断
26, panic  ['pænik]
n. 恐慌,惊惶
a. 惊慌的,没有理由的,恐慌的
v. 使...惊慌
Panic: 恐慌|使恐慌|成功
panic:: 紧张
t Panic: 别害怕
27, compelled 
v. 强迫,迫使,强要
vbl. 强迫,迫使,强要
compelled: 强迫|迫使
compelled signalling: 强制发信号
have no choice/compelled: 迫不得已
28, compliment  ['kɔmplimənt]
n. 称赞,恭维,致意
v. 称赞,褒扬,恭维
compliment: 恭维|赞扬|称赞
to compliment: 称赞
compliment n.: 赞美(话),恭维(话)
29, reserved  [ri'zə:vd]
v. 保留(预定,推迟)
a. 保留的(预订的,冷淡的,缄默)
reserved: 保守,稳重|预备的，保留的|保留的
Reserved RES: 保留的，尚未使用的
All reserved: 包场
30, courteous  ['kə:tjəs]
a. 有礼貌的
courteous: 有礼貌的|彬彬有礼的|谦恭有礼
courteous driving: 文明行车
courteous service: 服务周到
31, polite  [pə'lait]
a. 有礼貌的
Polite: 礼貌|联盟|时髦
polite:: 有礼貌
be polite: 要有礼貌
32, respectful  [ris'pektful]
a. 表示尊敬的,有礼貌的,谦恭的
Respectful: 表示尊敬的, 有礼貌的, 谦恭的|恭敬的|表示敬意
respectful mind: 尊重心智
Open and respectful: 开放并相互尊重
33, claim  [kleim]
n. 要求,要求权
v. 要求,请求,主张,声称,说明,断言
Claim: 索赔|要求|索偿
claim n.: 要求权|款项|要求
claim to: 声称
34, chivalry  ['ʃivəlri]
n. 骑士精神,骑士制度
Chivalry: 骑士制度|骑士精神|骑士气概
chivalry-guo: 盘角曲四
Chivalry Film: 镖客片
35, goofy  ['gu:fi]
a. 愚笨的,傻瓜的
GOOFY: 拗脚 右脚在前的滑板姿势。一般人都是左脚在前。|高飞狗|愚笨的
VS Goofy: 游戏规则
goofy grin: 傻笑
36, sarcastic  [sɑ:'kæstik]
a. 讽刺的
sarcastic: 讽刺的|讽刺|讽刺的，嘲笑的，挖苦的
37, timing  ['taimiŋ]
n. 时间的掌握(安排,配合)
Timing: 定时|正时|计时
H-Timing: 行定时
timing up: 感光时间
38, tease  [ti:z]
n. 揶揄者,戏弄
v. 欺负,嘲弄
Tease: 挑逗|取笑|取笑,挑逗
tease sb: 取笑某人
tease vt.: 戏弄|取笑，嘲笑